Week 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
Real life kink isn’t perfect or choreograph. Mishaps take place. In most occasions, laughter takes over, leaving toys and plans discarded. Heads bumps, limbs fall as sleep, cuffs are too tight, phones ring and trying to figure out new contraptions take too much time.
In books, everything goes smoothly–from finding the perfect Dom/sub dynamic to the synchronized orgasms and the wedding bells in the background. It’s the edited version of real life. And don’t let me get started about all the houses with secret, fully-equipped dungeons.
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